Competitors to Forgiveness
I know that Jeana and I are not the only ones getting away for a little rest and relaxation. Right here in the middle of summer, as many of our families are in and out, let me encourage all of us to continue to pray for each other as well as our ongoing ministries throughout the summer. Remember, it’s at this time of year that we see a lot of ministry take place not only in Northwest Arkansas, but literally around the world. I also want you to pray for our Summer Program of Giving, that we will meet the need that enables us to support these vital areas of ministry.
Now, I want to take you back just for a few minutes to this reminder God has given to my heart regarding forgiveness. Remember, first, when you truly forgive you are releasing the person of all offenses committed toward you and that true forgiveness literally has no limits.
No one should be surprised that Satan and even our old flesh will do everything to set up road blocks to exercising forgiveness in our lives. They, in effect, act as competitors that seek to keep us from forgiving as we should. There are six great competitors to forgiveness talked about in Ephesians 4:31. Before I go today, let me just briefly list them:
- The competitor of bitterness – this is to have a smoldering resentment in your heart toward another person rather than releasing them with forgiveness. You would rather hold on to it and harber ill intent toward those who have offended you. This is nothing less than poison to your hearts. (Hebrews 12:15) Someone has said “Bitterness will not make you better, it will make you bitter.”
- The competitor of wrath – this means to have rage or an outburst for a moment or for a very minimal time. Wrath exhibits a deeper feeling of hurt within your heart.
- The competitor of anger – this means to have a more subtle and internal hostility that flows deeply within you. It usually takes more time to show itself because it is so deep.
- The competitor of clamor – this means to shout or cry out words in an uncontrolled way that lead to fighting or speaking evil. Someone who has a tendency toward clamor may also be tempted to literally fight with fists or with words.
- The competitor of slander – this means to speak evil of someone and this results in creating greater conflict. Because most of us have suffered the effects of slander upon our own lives, it is amazing that from time to time we also are caught slandering the personality of another. Make no mistake about it, slander has destroyed many relationships and killed many churches.
- The competitor of malice – this is the general Greek term for evil, ill-will, and badness, being the root of all these sins that leads to unforgiveness. In affect, all of these competitors are allowed to exist in our hearts because of the basic, evil problem called malice.
I know this sounds pretty devastating. And in some ways, you may feel hopeless to overcome these competitors, but by the power of the Holy Spirit of God who lives in you and in confession to God, you can be set free to forgive and find cleansing. Right now, take a moment to ask God to set you free from an unforgiving heart. You’ll be glad you did. And so will others!






