One of the greatest disciplines I have ever established in my life is taking a day off every week. Certainly there are days it becomes violated, but if able, I just do not let that occur hardly ever. Why? Because the people I work with and the people I serve all need a day away from me and my stuff and leadership. I need it physically, emotionally, socially, professionally, and spiritually.

There are times when it cannot occur due to an extreme circumstance at the church. If so, that is okay and I embrace the challenge. All I know is, I feel it later in those days and it disqualifies me from operating at my best.

My day away is Friday, and I spend it with Jeana. It has enriched our marriage and both of our lives. We spend it together at home, shopping, at a movie, or a ball game. Yes, it is our time.

You see, by Saturday noon, after a couple of hours of study on a Saturday morning, I am getting my "game face on for Sunday."  I use the word "game" not as it being a game, but I am becoming mentally and spiritually ready to stand in front of thousands of people, mostly God himself, and proclaim His Word. Therefore, I am already in the mode of work and final preparation. You may see me somewhere physically on Saturday, but I am only one-half there.

Find a day. Chill. Everyone around you needs you to do that, especially you. God made you this way.